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What not to do parents towards their children

Розміщено : 26-01-2017, 08:19 | Категорія: Pregnancy and children | Переглядів: 145   
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Many parents do not realize what they cause in their children a strong reaction and aggressive behavior. We recommend you to pay attention to the following aspects of life. Like in this case can be interpreted the statement of the typical modern child:
1. To say when we get out of the house, phrases like "where are You going? Just out of school and leaving already? And the lessons?"

After these words, even if we go to max to doing algebra to montrose, it is still not conscious of this. After all, we don't like it when parents know everything about us. And the ability to hide from them at least some little thing gives us a feeling of privacy and freedom.
2. Excessive worry for us and to take care of

Understand that after ten in the evening we may be attacked in exactly the same way as at ten in the morning. Of course, walking around at night is dangerous, but you are shaking for us so that it is ready at all out of the house or to put in a tower without Windows and doors. And how do we learn life? Obviously, you are worried for us, but to overdo it is not worth it.
3. To criticize our tastes and style

When you realize that all sorts of piercings, red hair tattoo is our expression. Do not think that you have poorly educated or we long to bring you up to white heat. Just we are searching, trying something new, trying to stand out. We love to shock and attract attention. So we feel, and yet the other can't... And don't want to.
4. In any case, don't preach to us, comparing with them

"Here in our time...", "I was your age...". Don't you understand: life does not stand still, and now is our time, so let us live it our way, though not quite skillfully, but for themselves.
5. Don't judge us, and try to understand

You don't like the music that we cut in? What do you want that we went mad from Baskov or perhaps, gradually degrading? And you-you tried listening to modern rock or metal? But there is something to ponder.
6. Don't threaten and strictly prohibit something

Don't tell us: "Will smoke, drink beer, I'll show you...". You will not achieve anything except to protest and harsh words. Mostly because we love to protest against everything and for any occasion. And... to do exactly the opposite, as you say. Better somehow unobtrusive talk with us, just tell us when and why you can do and when you should not. And it comes to us. Because we are your children.
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